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Velvet Haven

How It Works

From application to introduction

A clear path into an adults-only dating and social community. Signing in starts the process; it does not make you an approved or verified member.

  1. Apply and add your photo

    Sign in with your verified email and complete the membership application. Provide accurate private identity details, your profile answers and at least one acceptable profile photo. Photos are reviewed separately from your identity check. You must be 18 or older.

  2. Verify your age and identity

    Complete the independent provider-hosted government-ID check, with a selfie or face check where supported. An 18+ checkbox is not verification. Required verification must confirm adult eligibility; an incomplete or unknown result does not unlock access.

    Full verification process and current provider-status notice

  3. Wait for staff review

    Our team reviews your application, verification outcome and profile photo. Staff may request more information, waitlist or decline an application. Passing verification does not guarantee approval, and signing in does not bypass review.

  4. If approved, activate membership

    Approved applicants can activate the existing $25/month subscription for member access. It renews automatically until canceled. Member browsing and messaging require the applicable approval, verification and membership checks.

    Read the membership terms
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Make the next introduction your own

Browse other members, send interest when a profile resonates and use member messaging to get acquainted. This is self-directed dating: there is no personal matchmaker, automated matching or guarantee of a connection.

Respect a no, avoid unwanted contact and keep conversations within the community’s rules. Reporting and blocking are available in the member experience.

Know your safety options

Membership, on clear terms

Cancel future renewals from the Membership page in your account before the next billing date to avoid another charge. Cancellation does not automatically refund a paid period; access normally continues until that period ends.

Full Refund & Cancellation Policy
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